This is often a tough one to get through. Intellectually it can be grasped and one can understand the concept. Yet when the urge hits ... whatever the “want” is can seem as if one cannot even live without it. If one is wise, they will use the use of “wanting” to push them back deeper into theirSelf, as it is never the external that is truly desired. It is the internal that gets externalized in the “thinking” that it isn’t something in you. There is nothing in this life that has to be chased after simply because it is all coming towards you. Everything that you need or want is already here and on it’s way. Just look at what you call "your life" hasn't everything always shown up?