The only question one ever need ask; "Who am I?" If followed to the Core, leads to the discovery of who one is ... through eliminating all of who one isn't.
Any answer that comes in response to this question, if it can be changed or altered in anyway ... it is not who you Are.
This question is the surest route to Self Discovery and yet so few choose to take it ... most would much rather be told who they are than to Discover It.
The Question "Who am I" is the road less traveled and it does make all the difference.