You already are IN what you think will come in some non-existent future. Everything you need to Realize this … is right with you now, all the friends and family that you think you will see in Heaven, are in the Heaven right in front of you ... it is just overlooked because one thinks it will be at some other time; that it will look different, that things will be different, that people will behave like one wants them to. Meanwhile; Heaven is overlooked.
Why wait till your deathbed to find out you already were IN, where you thought you were going. Once realized … it is the cosmic joke, until then ... ironic.